I’ve learned and grown a lot over the last couple years. My entire world was ripped out from under me in a 6 month span. I could have collapsed. At times I wanted to. But I didn’t.
I persevered. I pushed forward. I grew. I learned. I became stronger.
I’ve learned my children will always be my motivation. Everything I do is for them. I want to be there for them and provide for them but also I want them to see resilience. I want them to know it’s okay to be hurt and life is hard but they can do it and it is worth it. I want them to know I am and will always be there for them.
I’ve learned it doesn’t matter how many years or miles separate you, good friends will always be there for you. ALWAYS.
I’ve learned friends come and go. And that’s okay.
I’ve learned some people like drama. They want to be a part of it. They will try to exploit yours or create their own to drag you into.
I’ve learned those people aren’t worth my time.
I’ve learned your emergency isn’t mine. I won’t make it mine. I can’t bear your burden and my own. I can help you help yourself. It’s all I have to offer and if you can’t help yourself, I can no longer help you either.
I’ve learned I will never be consistent posting blogs or to any other social media platform. I’m having fun and that’s all that matters.
I’ve learned I can have friends and go out with them when I want. I can buy that car or that house all on my own. I can have elective surgery if I choose. I don’t need permission from anyone but myself.
But most importantly I’ve learned we are all responsible for our own happiness. True happiness can only come from within. Being satisfied with who you are and where you are going.
I realised somewhere along the lines the biggest leap of faith one can take is to believe in oneself. Sure things will go wrong. Mistakes will be made. Don’t let that bring you down. Learn from it. Grow in spite of it.
I’ve learned I am enough. I was broken. Now I’m happy and stronger for having lived through it.
Oily Minded Medic 